Facebook and the internet have opened up a whole new way of communicating. Usually I have met the person I am messaging but sometimes I haven't. Sometimes I may be posting for one person, but later might find that someone else read it with more interest. Sometimes not being able to see the person on the other end can lead to missunderstandings or confusion but, for the most part, many of us are happy to express ourselves trusting that someone will respond.
You might say it is a bit like prayer.
But how many of us pray? Surveys show that even in secular Britain about 20 million adults admit to praying on a regular basis. That is about half of us.
To pray is to pay attention to something or someone other than oneself.
Whenever a man so concentrates his attention --
on a landscape,
a poem,
a geometrical problem,
an idol, or the True God --
that he completely forgets his own ego and desires,
he is praying.
W. H. Auden (1907- 1973)
To pray seems to be a natural expression of our human experience, giving an outlet for our groaning emotions, with or without words; a conduit for expressing threatening thoughts, finding a frame of reference … a sense of perspective.
A sense of peace or a new strength.
I find that I am more when I pray because, as the saying goes:
"seven days without prayer makes one weak." - Allen Vartlett
One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, ‘Lord, teach us to pray (Luke 11)
One thing that distinguished Jesus was his life of prayer. Sometimes it was a bit annoying. Just when the crowds were gathering, Jesus walked away in order to be alone and pray. Sometimes his friends searched and could not find him (Mark 1.35f). And when they did eventually find him, they exclaimed, 'EVERYONE is looking for you!'
But for Jesus, prayer was like breathing air into his lungs.
Everything else – his teaching, the miracles, even his friendships - flowed
not into, but,
flowed out from his times of prayer.
But was Jesus really alone when he
prayed?
What do you think?
Those closest to Jesus noticed that when Jesus was alone, he was deeply engaging with someone else. When Jesus was alone, he was not really alone. He was enfolded in a Holy invisable Presence which inspired him, guided him and even changed his physical apprearance. On some occassions, these supernatural encounters caused his face to shine and his clothes to became as bright as a flash of lightning. (Luke 928f). His prayers were certainly more than meets the eye.
Perhaps that is why they dared to asked Jesus question: “Lord, teach us to pray.” They wanted to learn his secrets. And so, in the way that we might hold a child's hand in ours to trace the letters of the alphabet, Jesus introduces us to his language of prayer.
‘When you pray, say:
‘“Father, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come...”
And there is the origin of what we now call "the Lord's Prayer". Jesus taught his friends how to pray by giving them an example to follow. He wasn't giving them a formula or a magic spell to recite. He was giving them a guideline or a template to fill in. But more than that, Jesus was really introducing them, opening their eyes to meet the other person in his conversation.
Don't know how many of us communicate with your father on social networks. I facebook my father, but ring him mostly. The relationship Jesus had with his own father was definitely first place in his life, because his father was unlike any other.
Even to call upon his Father was to call upon Pefection and Holiness, the source of all love and life. No, Jesus was never alone. He always had his Father. Every other father, no matter how wonderful, still falls short when compared to the Creator Father that Jesus was introducing that day.
And Jesus invites us to see that this Creator Father of his, is Our Father too:
this Father that always runs out
- arms outstretched towards the runaway -
throwing his welcome wide embrace round and
weeping with kisses of love and forgiveness
freely inviting all who will come
into the party circle to celebrate
the reunion
- ‘The Prodigal Son/Daughter’painting by Charlie Mackesy
Our Father, Who is in heaven,
Holy is Your Name;
Your kingdom come,
Your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our sins,
as we forgive those who sin against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
The power and the glory are yours forever and ever. Amen.






